Understanding Human Psychology

  I recently started reading How Women Rise by Sally Helgesen and Marshall Goldsmith, and the first chapter struck a deep chord. It talked about how women often feel guilty or ashamed of their ambition. That line hit home for me. There were times I questioned myself: Am I being too ambitious for my age? For the stage of life I’m in? For the background, I come from? Maybe you’ve had those thoughts too — shaped by subtle messages from family, culture, or society. Sometimes not even told outright, just picked up like background noise growing up. But here's what I’ve learned — ambition is not arrogance. It's a dream in motion. The world’s most impactful leaders — women and men — weren’t apologetic about dreaming big. They rose because they dared to see beyond what existed. I'm thankful to my family and especially my husband, who saw my spark and never tried to dim it. That support has meant everything. But I also believe even without it, ambition should still be honoured, nur...

For the longest time, I believed happiness was about personal achievements—hitting career milestones, buying things I loved, or having free time to relax. While these brought temporary joy, something always felt missing. Over time, I realized that the deepest, most lasting happiness comes from finding a purpose and using it to serve others. Purpose isn’t just about passion. It’s about impact. It’s that feeling of knowing that what you do makes a difference. When you align your skills, talents, and values with something larger than yourself, happiness takes on a different meaning. It stops being fleeting and becomes a steady presence in your life. Think of doctors who dedicate themselves to healing, teachers who shape young minds, or artists who inspire with their work. They don’t just do a job; they fulfill a purpose that improves the lives of others. And in return, they feel a profound sense of joy and fulfillment. I have seen this shift happen in people around me. A friend who tra...