Understanding Human Psychology

Once upon a time, a dog decided to teach three students how to cross a creek by jumping from one side to the other. The first student was a rabbit. The dog demonstrated the jump, and the rabbit followed effortlessly. The dog and the other students clapped. The second student was a little crocodile. He tried to jump, failed, and tried again. Eventually, he stepped into the water, swam across, and reached the other side. The students clapped, but the dog was disappointed. “I asked you to jump, not swim,” he said. The third student was a sparrow. She tried to jump, but couldn't. Instead, she spread her wings and flew across. Once again, the students clapped, but the dog shook his head. “I asked you to jump. Better luck next time!” Now, what went wrong here? The rabbit could jump. The crocodile could swim. The sparrow could fly. All three reached the other side, but the teacher was so focused on *how* they reached the goal that he failed to appreciate that they had reached it at all. H...

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