Its Magic when you get answers from Within

I recently had a coaching session where the coachee started with a clear request:

"I want you to suggest what I should do about X, Y, and Z."

They went on listing their concerns, looking at me expectantly. I smiled and gently reminded them, “As I mentioned before, coaching isn’t about giving suggestions. But I will be here with you to explore all these topics.”

And so, we began.

Through thoughtful questioning and open exploration, we unpacked each of their concerns. I watched as they reflected, dug deeper, and connected the dots in their own way. As the session unfolded, their energy shifted—from seeking advice to discovering their own insights.

When we wrapped up, I asked, “What was the value of this session for you?”

They took a moment and said, “It was an incredible session! I got so much clarity.”

Smiling, I asked, “Did I suggest anything to you at any point?”

They paused, then laughed, “Not at all. And yet, it worked like magic!”

That moment—seeing the twinkle in their eyes, witnessing their realization that the answers had always been within them—was deeply fulfilling.

This is the power of coaching. It’s not about offering solutions but about creating a space where people can find their own. And when they do, the impact is far greater than any suggestion ever could be.